I think we as a whole and maybe even the generatiom before us have lowered our standards on what we think is acceptable behavior from someone who really loves and cares for us. The balance is so off kilter. You have one person full of devotion and love, ready to throw themself over the fire for the one they love and the other just takes and takes. We have people who are so emotionally crippled from being fucked over that they feel as if they show any kind of emotion or affection everything will come crashing down. The “in sickness and health” isn’t there for both parties anymore. I remember at one point in my marriage to my ex, when I thought “oh my gosh what have I done. This man would not stay by my if I had cancer or a serious illness. I chose the wrong one” 
Idk. I dont have it all figured out and I believe there are still good people out there but the tough part is grabbing a backbone and telling the ones who keep fucking you over to take a hike so that you can find someone who will love evefy part of you. 
I’m old fashioned, but I NEED to feel loved and wanted in a relationship. I need my significant other to make it a point to show me that they cherish me.
I have wasted so much time on people thay might actually be decent human beings when they arent going through it but because we found eachother while that person was going through a self distructive phase, my job went from girlfriend to caretaker and sometimes enabler. I was used. That was all I became good for. The moment clicked for me and its gonna sound vain.. I love TOO MUCH for my own good. sweetpeasandgoobers

I think we as a whole and maybe even the generatiom before us have lowered our standards on what we think is acceptable behavior from someone who really loves and cares for us. The balance is so off kilter. You have one person full of devotion and love, ready to throw themself over the fire for the one they love and the other just takes and takes. We have people who are so emotionally crippled from being fucked over that they feel as if they show any kind of emotion or affection everything will come crashing down. The “in sickness and health” isn’t there for both parties anymore. I remember at one point in my marriage to my ex, when I thought “oh my gosh what have I done. This man would not stay by my if I had cancer or a serious illness. I chose the wrong one”
Idk. I dont have it all figured out and I believe there are still good people out there but the tough part is grabbing a backbone and telling the ones who keep fucking you over to take a hike so that you can find someone who will love evefy part of you.
I’m old fashioned, but I NEED to feel loved and wanted in a relationship. I need my significant other to make it a point to show me that they cherish me.
I have wasted so much time on people thay might actually be decent human beings when they arent going through it but because we found eachother while that person was going through a self distructive phase, my job went from girlfriend to caretaker and sometimes enabler. I was used. That was all I became good for. The moment clicked for me and its gonna sound vain.. I love TOO MUCH for my own good.
sweetpeasandgoobers

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skyrimconfessionss:

"One thing I never really like about Skyrim compared to Oblivion is that despite chronologically going forward in time, the Empire seems to have downgraded.  I mean, Oblivion was more or less Medieval with the armor and architecture, and Skyrim jumps back to ancient Roman style armors, etc.  To me it just seems weird that the Imperial armor more or less got worse protection wise.  I can understand the whole appleal of Rome vs Viking barbarians from a developer standpoint, but why would you go to a frozen country to run around in short sleeve tunics and skirts?"
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skyrimconfessionss:

"One thing I never really like about Skyrim compared to Oblivion is that despite chronologically going forward in time, the Empire seems to have downgraded.  I mean, Oblivion was more or less Medieval with the armor and architecture, and Skyrim jumps back to ancient Roman style armors, etc.  To me it just seems weird that the Imperial armor more or less got worse protection wise.  I can understand the whole appleal of Rome vs Viking barbarians from a developer standpoint, but why would you go to a frozen country to run around in short sleeve tunics and skirts?"

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jenjohnsons
unemployedfranzist:

This has gone WAY past ‘racy sense of humor’. This is fucking psychotic. How can frankie go on and on about what his family has done for women’s rights and say shit like this? How can Christine as a woman just laugh along with this? How can Derrick WHO HAS A DAUGHTER, JUST LAUGH ALONG WITH THEM? 


He is just the biggest fucking piece of shit ever.

unemployedfranzist:

This has gone WAY past ‘racy sense of humor’. This is fucking psychotic. How can frankie go on and on about what his family has done for women’s rights and say shit like this? How can Christine as a woman just laugh along with this? How can Derrick WHO HAS A DAUGHTER, JUST LAUGH ALONG WITH THEM? 

He is just the biggest fucking piece of shit ever.